They say breastfeeding is magic. That colic is “just a phase.” That if the baby cries, I probably “don’t have enough milk.” And honestly? It doesn’t feel like magic. It feels like I’m being messed with. I’m exhausted, hormonal, second-guessing everything. And instead of support, I get: “Maybe your milk is weak.” “Maybe you’re doing it wrong.” “Just relax.” Relax?! While my baby is in pain and I’m blaming my own body? If you’re in this stage — colic, breastfeeding struggles, fear of low supply —